Category Archives: Feeling Clearly

Exploring emotions, working to articulate and express them clearly, completely, and helpfully.

Inexhaustibly Optimistic

I smell it before I see it. The scent lures me along the downtown street, like a predator to a hidden watering hole. Reaching the corner, I locate my quarry. Continue reading

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When We Go

Two exchanges overheard at the ballpark lead to some serious thinking about what my life means, now, at the end of it, and later. Continue reading

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Whap!!

Whap!! He flinches and ducks, too late, in that useless but typical reflex after being hit without warning. What the hell? he wonders. Standing in the airplane aisle after the flight, waiting impatiently to be released, he had been worrying … Continue reading

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It’s Blue. It’s Imported.

Sometimes, what we know changes how we look at things; sometimes how we look at things changes what we know. Continue reading

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The First Day

Last January 1st, I wrote the piece that follows this introduction to try to quiet the noise in my head after my father’s death just a few weeks earlier. Last spring, writing after the death of his own father, Rabbi … Continue reading

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A Proportional Response

How do we honour and care for veterans in a way that is proportionate, respectful, and sustainable? Continue reading

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Let it Snow, Let it Snow, Let it Snow

Transforming an often miserable Hallowe’en into the Day of the Dead – a remembrance and celebration of our dead.   The snowdrifts are knee high and hard crusted; the snow underfoot is so dry it squeaks. With the temperature hovering … Continue reading

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Gift From the Sea

Searching for agates on beaches – what better way to spend an October morning?   Whirling to lock the door, running late as usual, I fumble impatiently for keys in their assigned purse compartment: nothing. A frantic tour of unauthorized … Continue reading

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The Reason We Watch

They play, apparently, for the love of the game. That seems right — it’s the same reason we watch. Continue reading

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