I recommend this article as a follow-on to thinking about rules of engagement: This time, at the cultural/societal level.
With the rise of Asian American hate crimes,
I’m no longer confused about who I am.
I am Asian, as well as American,
and swallowing the bitterness of racism
shouldn’t be something that I have to bear.
America and Americans should do better.
– Kathleen Hou, Swallowing our Bitterness