Category Archives: Feeling Clearly

Exploring emotions, working to articulate and express them clearly, completely, and helpfully.

Heartbroken. Disgusted.

An off-cycle rant about refugees and Canadian politicians. Continue reading

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Was It Something I Said?

“I’ll never forget what you said.” Yikes! It’s been several years since we worked together. Exactly what “I-meant-it-to-be-funny-but-it-came-out-awful” thing had I said? My face goes still, but the small furry creature in my head (Lab rat? Gerbil? Please, please, don’t … Continue reading

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In the Face of Dreadful Odds

“That’s a story every Australian knows and, now, you do too.” I stand there, brought up short. It isn’t the first time. It’s been all of four hours since we met our Melbourne tour guide. We can see he’s lanky … Continue reading

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Not Yet 60

The mid-afternoon autumnal light slanting across the parking lot warms the day and lifts my heart, an involuntary response to something in the quality of the light. The air has a crispness we don’t get in the heat of summer. … Continue reading

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Yellow Stars & Uniforms

Will we triumph over evil? Continue reading

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So Long, Farewell, Auf Wiedersehen, Adieu

A final zodiac ride back to the ship from the last excursion ashore: happenstance boat-mates exchange meaningful glances. A last nightly briefing from the cruise director at the pre-dinner get-together: small groups of friends make a point of sitting together … Continue reading

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Ribbons

A road trip from Phoenix to Las Vegas offers the opportunity to observe and appreciate the desert’s resilience, to think about Gordon Lightfoot’s music, and to consider the persistence of good and evil, respectively. Are we driving beside water? Straining … Continue reading

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Is It a Bird? Is It a Plane?

Wallowing in frustration with my bird-identification skills and despair at the complexity of things to learn, I am brought up short by the memory of good advice I gave to a then-young son (but have steadfastly refused to take, myself). … Continue reading

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E is for Eye Doctor

The little kid within still carries a grudge against a suspicious school nurse from 40 years ago. Continue reading

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